You can not make someone fall in love with you using hypnosis because trying to make someone do anything while in trace will be rejected by their subconscious.
Hypnotism is a tool for creating an environment in which people are more susceptible to suggestion. Still, it requires rapport to work, or else your efforts will backfire on you.
It is possible to spark infatuation in someone.
The majority of the content that claims you make someone fall in love with you is really talking about igniting intense levels of infatuation.
But the two are not the same, are they?
Basking in the warmth of someone’s crush on you can fun, but it’s not real love.
Also, infatuation fads as fast as it came on.
On the other hand, love can be the most intense feeling a person can feel, and it’s all by choice.
So you can’t force someone to love you with hypnosis, but you can do something else that will work just as well.
You must become someone they can’t help but fall in love with
To begin, you first must love yourself and believe that you are loveable.
This is an absolute prerequisite because if you don’t think you’re worth someone else’s affection, why would you expect anyone else to feel that way?
You have to work on your inner self, and there’s no way around it.
And it may seem like you’re getting sidetracked, but that’s the furthest thing from the truth. What you are doing is becoming someone who can handle the type of love they really want.
Let’s say you get your heart’s desire, but your inner game is all out of whack.
Do you know what happens to that poor soul? They end up pushing the very person they love away, usually over something petty like jealousy. Petty feelings like jealousy are unfortunate byproducts of not loving yourself.
Let’s avoid being that person by becoming someone who can be loved.
Learn all about your beloved in the meantime
How much do you know about the object of your affection?
Do you know their interests? Do you know what the person likes and doesn’t like? Where do they do in their free time? How is their family life?
How much do you really know about your lover-to-be’s character and personality? You need to get to know this person. Try to become friends or at least friendly.
Does this sound like a lot of work? Maybe more than you first expected, but if you’re in love, it doesn’t matter, does it?
Once you’ve learned everything you can about your new friend, you can begin to show a little more interest in him or her.
For example, if your new friend loves to read, you can buy them a book they haven’t read yet but might want to. This is called building trust, and it will help you make the relationship jump later on.
Designing the Hypnotic blueprint.
Once you have a good idea about how your new friend thinks and feels. You can begin to design your hypnotic blueprint.
The hypnotic blueprint is about you, not them. You are to make a list of all the qualities you know they like and then use hypnosis to make yourself into the image they want.
Take Note: You are not pretending to be what that person likes. You are actually becoming what they want.
This is the time for some profound hypnotic reprogramming. Take your list of qualities and head over to my favorite internet site Hypnosis Downloads.com and let the shopping begin.
They have over 1000 downloads on just about every issue and personality fix you can think of (including how to ask that special one out when it’s time).
When do you know it’s time to make your move?
Timing is essential, but you don’t need to overthink it.
What you’re looking for is an opening but first, let’s make sure we’re on the same page.
By now, you should have:
- Worked on your Self-Image with emphasis on being loveable.
- Gotten a list of qualities your hope-to-be-lover wants.
- Scan through the Hypnosis download website for the hypnosis tracks to reprogram yourself.
From here, you are still being friends and friendly with them, but really, you’re waiting for an opening.
What’s an opening?
An opening is when someone gives you an indirect invitation to get more personal.
For example, an opening can be you giving someone a ride home from school because her family played shenanigans with her automobile. And as she gets ready to get out of your car and says something like.
“Thank you for going out of your way etc…how can I make this up to, etc.?”
Then you say,
“Dinner would be nice.”
That’s a real-life story, by the way. And it’s also just an example to give you an idea of what I’m talking about.
Your situation will most likely be different. Please make sure that you’re sure the other person is giving you an opening.
You can even ignore the first opening just to be on the safe side. As long as you remain friendly, you can catch the next opportunity.
Once you two get personal, they will discover more and more that you are the one they were looking for all this time.
I can’t guarantee love, but this is about the safest, most effective way to go about it. But there is a question that we need to ask.
Is all the work you’re doing worth it?
I’m sure by now you know you’re playing the long game. However, you’re aiming for a long-term relationship, so you may have to be in it for the long haul.
Make sure it’s worth waiting and working for?
Meanwhile, you keep focusing on your personal relationship with yourself and other activities and the people in your life.
This means you can still date. In fact, you should. You don’t want to put all your hopes into one person.
Besides you get the chance to practice. Think of it like going on trial interviews while you’re getting ready for your big job.
And if you’re needing some affection, the old cliché still applies.
Also, it keeps you interesting because if you seem desirable to others, you then become desirable to others.
Some call this faking it until you start making it, but I disagree because this is how the law of assumption works.
“You become who or what you believe you are.”
That’s why I said to begin with your self-image.
So you become the type of person that attracts what they’re aiming for. It’s all about self-love and self-betterment, and if you want to know more about that, you can read about it here.
Getting someone to love is not hard as long as you approach it from the inside out. Make yourself irresistible, then let him or her come to you.
First, learn to become invincible, then wait for their moment of vulnerability.Sun Tzu